職涯#
Kelly 認為,職涯的核心不在於賺最多錢或爬最高的位子,而在於找到讓你全心投入、甚至忘記時間的事。他從選擇工作、領導管理、創造力到日常工作智慧,提供了大量精煉的建議。
職涯選擇#
選擇職涯是人生最重要的決定之一。Kelly 強調,不要被薪水牽著走,而要找到能讓你成長、與值得學習的人共事的環境。
“Don’t take a job because it pays the most money.”
- 薪水不該是選擇工作的首要標準。高薪的工作如果讓你痛苦,那代價遠比少賺一些來得高。
“Don’t ever work for someone you don’t want to become.”
- 你的主管會深刻影響你的工作方式和價值觀。選擇一個你想成為的人作為領導者。
“That thing that made you weird as a kid could make you great as an adult—if you don’t lose it.”
- 小時候被視為「怪」的特質,往往是成年後最大的競爭優勢。別把它磨掉。
“Following your bliss is a recipe for paralysis if you don’t know what you are passionate about. A better path for most youth is ‘master something.’ Through mastery of one thing you’ll command a viewpoint to steadily find where your bliss is.”
如果不知道熱情在哪,先精通一件事。透過精通的過程,你會逐漸找到方向。「追隨熱情」聽起來很美,但對多數人而言「先精通再探索」更務實。
“Your best job will be one that you were unqualified for because it stretches you. In fact, only apply to jobs you are unqualified for.”
- 最好的工作是那些讓你感到不夠格的工作——因為它會迫使你成長。
“If nobody else does what you do you won’t need a resume.”
- 當你做到無可取代,履歷就變得多餘了。
“Show me your calendar and I will tell you your priorities. Tell me who your friends are and I’ll tell you where you’re going.”
- 你的行事曆反映你的真正優先順序,你的朋友圈預示你的未來方向。
“The best time to negotiate your salary for a new job is the moment after they say they want you and not before.”
- 談薪水的最佳時機是對方決定錄用你之後,不是之前。
領導與管理#
領導力不是控制人,而是創造環境讓人成長。Kelly 對領導與管理的建議直指核心。
“When you lead your real job is to create more leaders not more followers.”
真正的領導者培養更多領導者,而非製造更多追隨者。這是衡量領導力的終極標準。
“Train employees well enough that they could get another job but treat them well enough that they never want to.”
- 培訓員工讓他們有能力離開,但善待他們讓他們永遠不想走。這是管理的最高境界。
“Experience is overrated. Most breakthrough accomplishments were done by people doing them for the first time. Therefore when hiring hire for aptitude and attitude and then train for skills.”
- 招聘時,態度和天賦比經驗重要。大多數突破性成就都是由第一次做的人完成的。
“If you ask for someone’s feedback you’ll get a critic. But if instead you ask for advice you’ll get a partner.”
- 請別人給「回饋」會得到批評者;請別人給「建議」會得到夥伴。用語的差異影響深遠。
“To be hired, think like your boss.”
“If you ask to be hired mainly because you need a job you are just another problem for the boss; if you can solve many of the problems the boss has right now you are hired. To be hired, think like your boss.”
- 不要因為你「需要工作」而求職——要展示你能解決老闆的問題。
“You cannot get smart people to work extremely hard just for money.”
- 聰明人不會單純為了錢拼命工作。他們需要使命感、挑戰與成長空間。
“How to apologize: quickly, specifically, sincerely. Don’t ruin an apology with an excuse.”
- 道歉的三要素:快速、具體、真誠。別用藉口毀掉一個道歉。
“Speak confidently as if you are right but listen carefully as if you are wrong.”
- 自信地說,謙虛地聽。這是領導溝通的黃金準則。
“Nothing elevates a person higher than taking responsibility for their mistakes. If you mess up, fess up.”
- 沒有什麼比為錯誤負責更能提升一個人的形象。搞砸了,就坦白承認。
“If you want something to get done ask a busy person to do it.”
- 想要事情完成,找忙碌的人。他們已經掌握了高效的工作方式。
創造力與生產力#
Kelly 對創造力和生產力的看法充滿智慧:真正的生產力不是做得更快,而是做對的事。
“Separate the processes of creating from improving. You can’t write and edit or sculpt and polish or make and analyze at the same time. If you do, the editor stops the creator.”
創造和改善是兩個不同的過程,不要同時進行。寫作時不要編輯,雕刻時不要打磨。讓創作者先自由發揮,再讓編輯者出場。
“Productivity is often a distraction. Don’t aim for better ways to get through your tasks as quickly as possible. Instead aim for better tasks that you never want to stop doing.”
- 生產力常常是一種陷阱。與其追求更快完成任務,不如找到你根本不想停下來的任務。
“Figure out what time of day you are most productive and protect that time period.”
- 找出你一天中最有生產力的時段,然後不惜一切保護它。
“Don’t let your email inbox become your to-do list run by others.”
- 別讓你的收件匣變成別人替你安排的待辦清單。
“The best way to untangle a knotty tangle is not to ‘untie’ the knots but to keep pulling the loops apart wider and wider.”
- 解開複雜問題的方法不是直接解結,而是不斷把迴圈拉大,讓結構自然鬆開。
“Do more of what looks like work to others but is play for you.”
- 多做那些在別人看來是工作、在你看來是玩耍的事。這就是你的天職所在。
“What you do instead of work might become your real work.”
- 你逃避工作時做的事,可能才是你真正該做的事。
“The first step is usually to complete the last step.”
- 展開一件事最好的方式,往往是先想清楚最後一步該怎麼完成。
工作智慧#
日常工作中的實用智慧,幫助你在職場中走得更遠、更穩。
“You can obsess about your customers or you can obsess about beating the competition. Both work, but of the two obsessing about your customers will take you further.”
- 執著於客戶比執著於擊敗競爭對手走得更遠。兩者都有效,但前者的天花板更高。
“Don’t create things to make money; make money so you can create things. The reward for good work is more work.”
- 不要為了賺錢而創造;賺錢是為了能繼續創造。好工作的獎勵是更多好工作。
“If you are the smartest person in the room, you are in the wrong room. Hang out with, and learn from people smarter than yourself. Even better, find smart people who will disagree with you.”
如果你是房間裡最聰明的人,你走錯房間了。找比你聰明的人為伍,更好的是找會跟你唱反調的聰明人。
“To succeed, get other people to pay you; to become wealthy, help other people to succeed.”
- 想成功,讓別人付你錢;想致富,幫助別人成功。
“Pros make as many mistakes as amateurs; they’ve just learned how to gracefully recover from their mistakes.”
- 專業人士犯的錯和業餘者一樣多,差別在於他們學會了如何優雅地從錯誤中恢復。
“Shorten your to-do list by asking yourself ‘What is the worst that will happen if this does not get done?’ Eliminate all but the disasters.”
- 縮短待辦清單的方法:問自己「如果這件事沒做,最壞會怎樣?」把不是災難的都刪掉。
“The work on any worthy project is endless, infinite. You cannot limit the work so you must limit your hours. Your time, not the work is the only thing you can manage.”
- 任何值得做的專案,工作量都是無限的。你無法限制工作量,只能限制工作時間。你能管理的只有時間,不是工作。
“Half the skill of being educated is learning what you can ignore.”
- 受教育的一半技能在於學會什麼可以忽略。
“The natural state of all possessions is to need repair and maintenance. What you own will eventually own you. Choose selectively.”
- 所有物品的自然狀態就是需要維修和保養。你擁有的東西,終究會反過來擁有你。慎選。